Ever listen to audio erotica with a partner? How audio can strengthen your connection.
It promotes sexual wellness in the mind and body
The beauty about being a sexual being is that our needs can shift and change as we grow throughout our lives. Dipping in and out of kinks and desires is one of the most fun journeys you can go on with a partner - but it does require a little bit of trial and error, and a lot of communication.
Audio erotica is a safe way to explore these yearnings: it’s a little less intense than visual porn when it comes to uncovering what turns you on. Our minds can be a little tricksy - particularly for women - when it comes to arousal and orgasm, so feeling relaxed and safe can be essential when you’re sharing fantasies with another person. And naturally, when your mind feels secure, your body responds.
Sexual wellness comes from being in harmony with the needs of both your mind and body, leading to positive intimacy between you and your partner. Audio erotica is a low-pressure, exciting and fun way to explore porn and grow a connection with your partner without diving right in at the deep end.
It’s more female-focused
Let’s face it: women know what women want. And since porn has typically been made by men with the male gaze front and center, is it any surprise that female-focused, ethical, feminist audio porn has enjoyed a huge surge in recent years?
Audio erotica is simply more inclusive, telling sensual stories rather than stale sex scenes. Women are less image-focused than men, which means we get turned on by fully-rounded characters, suspense and a spine-tingling slow burn. Women’s pleasure takes the wheel; we are invited in rather than left out.
And because it’s more female-friendly, that permission to express what we want in (and out of) bed feels as though it’s finally being granted. When we can be more open with our partners - sharing audio erotica together and then taking it to the bedroom - nobody is being left out in the cold.
It’s active, rather than passive
The most inspiring aspect of audio porn comes from its welcoming vibe. In what other media can you become part of the story as it winds and weaves around you? When you’re listening to erotica, you aren’t fixated on a screen or a page - it’s enveloping, all-encompassing, and really freaking hot.
This is why it’s ideal for partners to explore as part of their foreplay - and beyond. You can use it to get to know your partner’s hot spots: since it’s so ambiguous, different people will get different kicks from the same story. What you thought was soft and sensual, your partner might interpret as wild and thrilling, resulting in double the pleasure when you share how each story turned you on.
Taking things from the headphones to the bed is as easy as turning up the speakers. With fantasies playing in the background, you can be free to keep your eyes - and hands, and lips and tongues - firmly focused on each other.
