A Half-Twist Piledriver? Nah - Try These Five Simple Sex Moves

Unless you’re asexual, there’s a good chance that you have a preferred sexual position or three that you count on when you’re in the bedroom. According to a study of 2,000 men and women in both the U.S. and the U.K., there are three sex positions that are the most popular for both of these genders (and likely many others): doggy style, missionary, and rider on top (or cowgirl). And while these are great positions that maximize pleasure for both parties, there are a whole host of sex positions that can make things spicier in the bedroom for many folks. To that end, here are five sex positions that everyone should try at least once. 

Hold your legs up for a deeper experience

If you’re a fan of missionary position but are looking for a way to change it up just a tad -- why mess too much with perfection, after all -- try grabbing onto your legs and pulling them up towards your shoulders. This will allow for deeper penetration, which can be satisfying for both the giver and the receiver. 

Try spooning for equal pleasure

You probably have slept in the spoon position, whether you prefer being the big spoon or the little spoon. But did you know you can also spoon when you’re getting it on? All you have to do is lay on your side next to your partner, and you can enjoy the pleasures of this relaxing position. As a bonus, it frees up your hand to go wandering either on your body or on your partner’s.

69 can show you the fun of mutual oral sex

It may seem like a position that only adult actors are familiar with, but the 69 position is a great way to make oral sex a centerpiece of your intimate life.  You can accomplish this position by laying on your sides next to each other, or one of you can get on top with the other on the bottom. This position can be especially fun if you bring in the vibrator, which frees up the hands for other stimulation. 

Reverse rider can show a new side of things

While the rider-on-top position is among the three most popular (and is great for clitoral stimulation), with a little variation you just might discover an angle that works better for you in the reverse rider position. So instead of facing your partner next time you climb on top, this time face away from them and look toward their feet. They get the joy of ogling your gorgeous back, and you can experiment with new ways to enjoy the ride. 

Think outside the bed with table top

You don’t have to leave the bedroom to enjoy intimacy while in the tabletop position -- you just need a flat surface, like a sturdy countertop or yes, a table. One partner lays on their back on that surface while the other stands up, approaches the prone partner, and makes the connection. Of course, there are variations in this position, too, so experiment to see what works best for you. This position can provide a nice way to change the way thrusting occurs. Just be sure to keep the height of the table in mind, and you’ll be good to go!