Turn it On with Good Sexting
Did you know that sexting has been associated with sexual satisfaction and a greater sense of well-being? One study found that half of the people that engaged in sexting reported positive sexual or emotional consequences. The brain is a powerful sex organ, and turning on the brain = priming the body for delicious sex.
Sexting is the practice of communicating explicitly through electronic means that make it possible to send sexual materials in pictures, text messages, and other electronic formats. For couples in a long-distance relationship, sexting can provide the same mental health benefits as having an in-person relationship with your partner.
It’s essential to seek the consent of your partner before beginning. After getting consent, what can you talk about, and how can you convey those alluring red hot thoughts? Try these tips:
Share your fantasies
Everyone has fantasies. They can be elaborate, kinky things or simple and straightforward. Sharing your fantasies with your partner can build communication and spur new ideas for sexy fun. But don't feel like you have to jump into elaborate world building. Do you want your partner to kiss every inch of your body? Do you want to run your fingers through their hair? Tell them.
Similarly, you can talk about things you have done together that are memorable. Something like, Those kisses you gave my nipples last night just crossed my mind can turn a regular workday into something special.
If you want to use sexting as an opportunity to introduce new ideas, you can frame them in very 'safe' ways. Imagine if we... or I had the most interesting dream about you last night... Or you can mention something in passing and see if your partner jumps on the bait: Your ass looks so good in your jeans, baby. Made me think about wanting to play with that butt of yours.
Nudes and thirst traps
You can send sexy nude photos of yourself, in lingerie or just looking cute. Request a pic of them - your message could read like this: I want to see what you look like right now. Send a picture of you. Adding a sense of urgency to your message compels your partner to excitedly share. Err on the side of caution, and try not to send explicit pictures with your face in them (always good practice!). Triple-check to make sure you are sending to the right recipient. You don't want your mum replying with a picture of Jesus looking sad.
Send a positive message
Share a message with your partner telling them what you love about them and why you feel so special around them. It’s as simple as saying, You are so gorgeous to make your partner feel validated. Just letting them know you're thinking of them is enough to make them smile.
Sexting in a trusting and committed relationship should be safe. A good rule of thumb is to never to share your partner's nudes or sexts with anyone. It’s also wise to protect your privacy by using privacy-protecting platforms to share and store messages.
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